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"Love in the heart was not meant there to stay. Love is not love till you give it away". For love to be ever lasting and eternal every one should be aware of the different stages of love and know its significance. Following are the different phases through which you will travel in your love life and only those who pass it will have an endless love.
ATTRACTION
Attraction can be defined as something, which is more than friendship and is a step towards getting ready for a relationship. Now attraction is of two types:
a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are ready for the first contact and also whether you are comfortable in the company of the other person.
b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to come closer. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form. Sometimes an emotional attraction can occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond will be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred.
INTIMACY
Intimacy is something, which a person experiences when you learn to trust and believe your lover. It is a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, feelings, and dreams. You feel free to discuss everything with this person and you are absolutely comfortable in his company. Thus intimacy develops gradually. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years. Intimacy is actually the path to a true, healthy and beautiful relationship.
ROMANCE
Romance is the essence of a relationship. Without romance your love life will not exist. Romance is the true identity of your love. It brings out your true self and helps you be a better lover, husband and partner. Romance is a celebration of the life you live as part of a couple. It springs naturally and originates from within your heart. It makes you do things that you possibly couldn't have imagined to do otherwise. It shows you who you are and reminds you of the role you play in a relationship. Romance is not responsibility but it is caring about your responsibilities towards your lover and partner. Romance is the appreciation of two people who are celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found each other.
PASSION
The third stage is passion, which basically means a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. For from here you will understand the true meaning and nature of your relationship. If there is no passion then its best to let go but if there is passion in your relationship then it is time to go on to the next stage.
COMMITMENT
The last stage is commitment. This is when you know that you want to spend your whole life with this person you love and you can do anything for him. It is when your whole world just revolves round your lover and you take a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times, be by his side whenever he needs you.
eyes meet,
it is like a touch...
a spark...
----------------Attraction
the touch of the eyes
was as if,
it was...
------------------ Infatuation
the flame
of her body is felt,
his breath starts igniting...
------------------ Love
she touches him like a whisper,
as if silence is mixed in her eyes,
he prays, a little consciously,
a little unconsciously...
------------------ Reverence
he is entangled on her path,
entangled in her arms
love now turns to...
------------------ Worship
living is an obsession...
dying is an obsession...
apart from this there is no peace...
------------------ Obsession
let him rest in the lap of death...
let him drown his body in her soul...
------------------ Death
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Sunday, September 21, 2008
7 shades of love
"Love in the heart was not meant there to stay। Love is not love till you give it away"। For love to be ever lasting and eternal every one should be aware of the different stages of love and know its significance. Following are the different phases through which you will travel in your love life and only those who pass it will have an endless love.ATTRACTIONAttraction can be defined as something, which is more than friendship and is a step towards getting ready for a relationship. Now attraction is of two types: a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is what will tell you that you are ready for the first contact and also whether you are comfortable in the company of the other person. b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to come closer. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form. Sometimes an emotional attraction can occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond will be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred.INTIMACY Intimacy is something, which a person experiences when you learn to trust and believe your lover. It is a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, feelings, and dreams. You feel free to discuss everything with this person and you are absolutely comfortable in his company. Thus intimacy develops gradually. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years. Intimacy is actually the path to a true, healthy and beautiful relationship.ROMANCERomance is the essence of a relationship. Without romance your love life will not exist. Romance is the true identity of your love. It brings out your true self and helps you be a better lover, husband and partner. Romance is a celebration of the life you live as part of a couple. It springs naturally and originates from within your heart. It makes you do things that you possibly couldn't have imagined to do otherwise. It shows you who you are and reminds you of the role you play in a relationship. Romance is not responsibility but it is caring about your responsibilities towards your lover and partner. Romance is the appreciation of two people who are celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found each other.PASSION The third stage is passion, which basically means a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. For from here you will understand the true meaning and nature of your relationship. If there is no passion then its best to let go but if there is passion in your relationship then it is time to go on to the next stage.COMMITMENTThe last stage is commitment. This is when you know that you want to spend your whole life with this person you love and you can do anything for him. It is when your whole world just revolves round your lover and you take a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times, be by his side whenever he needs you.
eyes meet,it is like a touch...a spark...----------------Attraction
the touch of the eyeswas as if,it was...------------------ Infatuation
the flameof her body is felt,his breath starts igniting...------------------ Love
she touches him like a whisper,as if silence is mixed in her eyes,he prays, a little consciously,a little unconsciously...------------------ Reverence
he is entangled on her path,entangled in her armslove now turns to...------------------ Worship
living is an obsession...dying is an obsession...apart from this there is no peace...------------------ Obsession
let him rest in the lap of death...let him drown his body in her soul...------------------ Death
eyes meet,it is like a touch...a spark...----------------Attraction
the touch of the eyeswas as if,it was...------------------ Infatuation
the flameof her body is felt,his breath starts igniting...------------------ Love
she touches him like a whisper,as if silence is mixed in her eyes,he prays, a little consciously,a little unconsciously...------------------ Reverence
he is entangled on her path,entangled in her armslove now turns to...------------------ Worship
living is an obsession...dying is an obsession...apart from this there is no peace...------------------ Obsession
let him rest in the lap of death...let him drown his body in her soul...------------------ Death
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
र्होत्क में गेस्ट टीचर पर गोलियां नजदीक से चलाई गईं
राष्ट्रीय मानव अधिकार आयोग से नीवेदन
है की बो अपनी एक टीम रोहतक भेजे और इस मामले पर पुलिस के खिलाफ कठोर कर्यबाही करे
है की बो अपनी एक टीम रोहतक भेजे और इस मामले पर पुलिस के खिलाफ कठोर कर्यबाही करे
No mercy: Policemen lathi-charging temporary teachers during a rally in support of their various demands at Rohtak in Haryana on Sunday
One female guest teacher was allegedly killed in police firing and several others injured in a cane-charge by Haryana Police at Rohtak on Sunday.
According to reports reaching the State headquarters here, thousands of guest teachers, largely females, were walking towards the residence of Haryana Chief Minister Bhupinder Singh Hooda in Rohtak to present a memorandum seeking resolution of long-pending demands for regularization when the police stopped them from marching ahead.
This led to verbal skirmishes and the lathi-wielding police reportedly tried to physically remove the protesters. Soon, the reports said, some protestors hurled stones at the cops in retaliation. The police then resorted to cane charge and reportedly opened fire to disperse the agitating teachers.
Even though there was no official confirmation or denial about the incident, reports reaching here said that one teacher identified as Raj Rani of Jind had been reportedly killed in the police firing. These reports also said that three persons with alleged bullet wounds were in a serious condition.
The postmortem examination of Raj Rani, the woman guest teacher who was killed in yesterday’s firing, has belied the claims of the local police and administrative authorities that she had not been shot by the police. The postmortem report revealed that she had died due to shock and haemorrhage caused as a result of firearm (bullet) injury.
As many as four plastic-rubber bullets were also recovered from the abdominal cavity of the woman’s body, which strongly indicates that she had been fired at by the police.
The plastic-rubber bullets are used by the police force to disperse a mob and are fired from a special weapon included under the category of teargas equipment. Hence, contrary to the claims of the local administration and police authorities, it is not practically possible that the bullets were fired by “somebody from the crowd”.
The bullets - which are made of plastic and rubber and are not pointed like the lead bullets - penetrated into the teacher’s body. This very fact indicates that the bullets had been fired from a very close range, which is not the done thing.
As the purpose of using these bullets is just to disperse the crowd and not to injure or kill anybody, these are fired from a distance. But in the give case, the bullets were fired from a close distance, which proved fatal for the woman.
In the given circumstances, the possibility of some other more powerful weapon having been used to fire these bullets can also not be ruled out.
The postmortem report further states that a lot of blood (nearly 2.5 litre) had been lost from the woman’s body, which can be a major factor leading to her death.
According to the Press photographers present at the site of protest, the police personnel deployed there had not allowed anybody to go near the woman after she was injured and fell down for long. Had she been taken to hospital promptly, her life could have been saved.
Deputy commissioner R.S. Doon said the bullets recovered from the woman’s body were being sent to the forensic science laboratory in Madhuban and a final conclusion could be reached only after their report was received.
IGP of the Rohtak range V. Kamaraja said due legal action would be taken in this regard, adding that any policeman found guilty of misconduct would not be spared.
Rohtak : A woman guest teacher was killed and scores of persons, including Rohtak deputy commissioner R.S. Doon, SSP Alok Mittal, protesting guest teachers, police officials and passersby, were injured as a state-level protest demonstration by guest teachers organised here today turned violent.
The trouble began when thousands of guest teachers marching towards the local residence/camp office of Chief Minister Bhupinder Singh Hooda were stopped by the police and administrative officials. While the protesters demanded that they would submit a charter of their demands to the CM or his MP son Deepender Singh Hooda, the district officials insisted that the memorandum be submitted to some representative of the CM or MP.
Following this, the protesting teachers staged a dharna on the Sonepat road demanding that the CM or MP, who were in the town today, come there and collect their memorandum.
However, when neither the CM nor the MP reached there for a long time, the protesters started moving towards the CM’s camp office/local residence. When the police officials deputed there tried to stop them, the protesters pelted them with stones. The police then resorted to use of force, including lathicharge, teargas shells and water canons.
The police personnel also fired several shots in the air to control the protesters. Meanwhile, somebody from the crowd also opened fire at the policemen and administrative officials present there. A woman guest teacher, identified as Raj Rani, was hit by a bullet and died.
The deputy commissioner and several policemen present there also received bullet injuries, while the SSP and many other cops were hurt in stone pelting.
In all, nearly 70 guest teachers, 30 policemen and some passersby were injured in the clash. The attendants of the guest teachers were also beaten up at the PGIMS, where they had taken the injured for treatment.
Later, addressing a press conference, the DC and SSP Alok Mittal asserted that some anti-social elements present among the protesters had opened fire, due to which the police action was necessitated.
They claimed that the guest teacher, Raj Rani of Jind district, had not died in police firing. The DC also ordered a magisterial probe into the matter, which will be conducted by Rohtak ADC P.C. Meena.
On the other hand, Arun Malik, president of the Haryana Atithi Adhyapak Sangh, has condemned “brutal” police action on the democratically protesting guest teachers. He said their protest would continue.
Meanwhile, a team of forensic experts visited the scene of crime and began investigations. Another team of ballistic experts from Madhuban is also expected for inspection. A case under various sections of the IPC has been registered in this regard and at least 30 persons have been rounded up by the police.
राष्ट्रीय मानव अधिकार आयोग से निवेदन है की बो अपनी एक टीम रोहतक भेजे और इस मामले पर पुलिस के खिलाफ कठोर कर्यबाही करे
रोहतक.प्रदर्शन में शामिल गेस्ट टीचर राजरानी को लगी सभी चार गोलियां पुलिस के बंदूक से ही निकली थीं। रबड़ की ये गोलियां नजदीक से चलाई गईं थीं। समय रहते यदि उसे अस्पताल पहुंचाया जाता जान बच सकती थी। यह खुलासा सोमवार को राजरानी की पोस्टमार्टम रिपोर्ट में हुआ।
साथ ही, पुलिस के उस दावे की कलई खुल गई जिसमें भीड़ द्वारा चली गोली से मौत की बात कही गई थी। अपनी मांगों को लेकर गेस्ट टीचर्स रविवार को सीएम आवास का घेराव करने जा रहे प्रदर्शनकारियों पर पुलिस ने लाठीचार्ज और फायरिंग की थी। इसमें राजरानी (जींद) की मौत हो गई थी और सैकड़ों घायल हो गए थे।
पुलिस का दावा था कि .315 बोर की गोलियां भीड़ से चलाई गई थी। सोमवार को पीजीआई में चार सदस्यीय टीम ने राजरानी के शव का पोस्टमार्टम किया। उसके शरीर पर गोलियों के गहरे जख्म मिले। रिपोर्ट के मुताबिक गोलियां कम दूरी से मारी गई थी। उसके पेट में रबड़ की चार गोलियां लगी थी जो पुलिस ने चलाई थी।
जांघ के पास लगने के बाद गोलियां पेट तक पहुंच गई। खून की मुख्य वाहिनी फट गई थी जिससे काफी मात्रा में खून बह गया था। डॉक्टरों के मुताबिक यदि समय रहते राजरानी का इलाज हो जाता तो शायद वह बच जाती। पैनल में फॉरेंसिक विभाग के अध्यक्ष डॉ. पीके पालीवाल, वरिष्ठ डॉ. एसके धत्तरवाल, डॉ. बसंत सरोहीवाल तथा डॉ. मीना गिल शामिल थीं। पैनल ने रिपोर्ट निदेशक डॉ. एसएस सांगवान को सौंप दी है। उधर पुलिस ने पोस्टमार्टम के बाद शव को परिजनों के हवाले कर दिया।
पुलिस फायरिंग में शिक्षिका की मौत
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मुख्यमंत्री आवास पर प्रदर्शन कर रहे थे अतिथि अध्यापक संघ के कार्यकर्ता
रोहतक,। मुख्यमंत्री आवास पर प्रदर्शन कर रहे अतिथि अध्यापक संघ के कार्यकर्ताओं पर पुलिस ने आज जमकर लाठियां भांजी। प्रदर्शन को तितर-बितर करने के लिए पुलिस को अश्रुगैस छोड़नी पड़ी और हालात काबू में न आने पर फायरिंग भी करनी पड़ गई। फायरिंग में एक शिक्षिका की मौत हो गई जबकि लाठीचार्ज और अश्रुगैस से कई अन्य अध्यापक घायल हो गए।
प्रदेशभर से आए छह हजार से अधिक अतिथि अध्यापकों ने रोहतक पहुंचकर मुख्यमंत्री को ज्ञापन सौंपने के लिए जुलूस निकाला। जुलूस को मुख्यमंत्री आवास की आ॓र जाते समय शीला बाईपास के पास रोक लिया गया। पुलिस चाहती थी कि ज्ञापन उन्हें ही सौंप दिया जाए, मगर शिक्षक मुख्यमंत्री हुड्डा या फिर सांसद दीपेन्द्र को ज्ञापन सौंपने के लिए सीएम आवास की आ॓र बढ़ने के लिए तत्पर थे। शीला बाईपास पर ही जुलूस को पुलिस ने रोक लिया। पुलिस ने शिक्षकों के उग्र होने पर पहले लाठीचार्ज कर उन्हें तितर-बितर करने का प्रयास किया लेकिन सफलता नहीं मिली और प्रदर्शनकारी पथराव पर उतर आए। इसके बाद पुलिस को पहले आंसू गैस इस्तेमाल करना पड़ा और फिर गोलियां भी चलानी पड़ीं। इसमें सैकड़ों अध्यापक घायल हो गए। बताया जाता है कि फायरिंग में जींद से आई शिक्षिका राजरानी गंभीर रूप से घायल हो गई। उसे अस्पताल पहुंचाया गया, जहां डाक्टरों ने उसे मृत घोषित कर दिया। घायल हुए बहुत से अतिथि अध्यापक शहर के कई अस्पतालों में इलाज करवा रहे हैं। अतिथि अध्यापक संघ के प्रदेशाध्यक्ष अरूण मलिक ने कहा ‘‘हमलोग कई सालों से स्कूलों में सेवाएं दे रहे हैं, हमें अब नौकरी में पक्का करना चाहिए मगर सरकार हटाने पर तुली हुई है।’’ जानकारी के मुताबिक मुख्यमंत्री हुड्डा उस समय रोहतक में ही थे। बाद में वे दिल्ली के लिए रवाना हो गए।
ROHTAK: A guest teacher was killed and scores of persons, including Rohtak deputy commissioner R.S. Doon, SSP Alok Mittal, protesting guest teachers, police officials and passersby, were injured as a state-level protest demonstration by guest teachers organised on Monday turned violent.
The trouble began when thousands of guest teachers marching towards the local residence/camp office of Chief Minister Bhupinder Singh Hooda were stopped by the police and administrative officials. While the protesters demanded that they would submit a charter of their demands to the CM or his MP son Deepender Singh Hooda, the district officials insisted that the memorandum be submitted to some representative of the CM or MP.
Following this, the protesting teachers staged a dharna on the Sonepat road demanding that the CM or MP, who were in the town today, come there and collect their memorandum.
However, when neither the CM nor the MP reached there for a long time, the protesters started moving towards the CM’s camp office/local residence. When the police officials deputed there tried to stop them, the protesters pelted them with stones. The police then resorted to use of force, including lathicharge, teargas shells and water canons.
The police personnel also fired several shots in the air to control the protesters. Meanwhile, somebody from the crowd also opened fire at the policemen and administrative officials present there. A woman guest teacher, identified as Raj Rani, was hit by a bullet and died.
The deputy commissioner and several policemen present there also received bullet injuries, while the SSP and many other cops were hurt in stone pelting.
In all, nearly 70 guest teachers, 30 policemen and some passersby were injured in the clash. The attendants of the guest teachers were also beaten up at the PGIMS, where they had taken the injured for treatment.
Later, addressing a press conference, the DC and SSP Alok Mittal asserted that some anti-social elements present among the protesters had opened fire, due to which the police action was necessitated.
They claimed that the guest teacher, Raj Rani of Jind district, had not died in police firing. The DC also ordered a magisterial probe into the matter, which will be conducted by Rohtak ADC P.C. Meena.
On the other hand, Arun Malik, president of the Haryana Atithi Adhyapak Sangh, has condemned “brutal” police action on the democratically protesting guest teachers. He said their protest would continue.
Meanwhile, a team of forensic experts visited the scene of crime and began investigations. Another team of ballistic experts from Madhuban is also expected for inspection. A case under various sections of the IPC has been registered in this regard and at least 30 persons have been rounded up by the police.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Appeal for urgent relief assistance for the flood victims of north Bihar.state.
To
All our esteemed partner/ NGOs,Donor Agencies, Foundations and other relief support agencies. reporter / RWA/ sponsor Sh gaurav arya / Coordinating Member
Sub: Appeal for urgent relief assistance for the flood victims of north Bihar.state.
Dear Sir,
Thank you for your regular cooperation and kind assistance to the people of north
Two million people have been left homeless and scores killed by the worst flooding in
The waters rose in the state of
all is trying to help the people affected by collecting old clothes and medicines and handing it over to the FOUNDATION FOR COMMAN MAN Coordinating Member
Therefore I appealed your kind agency to come forward for express relief assistance for purchase of Tarpulin,cloths, utensil, relief dry food items,teaching materials for students,Medicines as well as sanitational materials for at least 300000 families of BIHAR operational villages who have been deeply affected and spending sleepless night on the embankment under the sky.An estimate of critical relief requirement is drawn below for your perusal and benign action.We solicite your kind gesture in circulating our flood message among your associated agencies and prospective partners for immediate relief assistance also.Kindly visit our website www.parhlad.blogspot.com for detailed information about FOUNDATION FOR COMMAN MAN
Awaiting to hear from you,
Yours Sincerely
PRAHLAD KUMAR AGGARWAL
Coordinating Member
FOUNDATION FOR COMMAN MAN
B58/149 GURU NANAK PURA LAXMI NAGAR
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E-mail: PARHLAD_AGGARWAL@YAHOO.CO.IN
Website: www.parhlad.blogspot.com
Encl: Relief proposal
RELIEF PROPOSAL
Title: RELIEF ASSISTANCE FOR THE FLOOD AFFECTED PEOPLE OF
THE PROBLEM:
A marauding flood in the form of a sudden impact natural disaster has just wiped away the entire north
The most inflicting KOSI have affected villages of Gram Panchayat (GP) affecting 3000000 lacs people as per our survey. Major inundation is due to washing of spurs at various curves in the course of both the river. This has cost wide spread damage to farm and home resources of the villagers and paralyzed day to day activities. People are spending sleepless night on the river embankment and cyclone centers with their children and bereaved of essential belongings. The local administration has arranged some food and rescue assistance, which is widely inadequate .We fear; things could take disastrous proportions if immediate provision of relief items and input assistance against crop loss are not made.
PRIMARY ESTIMATE OF LOSS CAUSED: LUMP SAMP
Name of the district affected :
Total number of Block affected : NA
Total number of villages affected :NA
Total family affected : 3000000
Total population affected: 6000000
Houses fully collapsed : NA
Houses partially collapsed : NA
Extent of crop loss : NA
Paddy crop : NA
Vegetable crop: NA
* NA NOT AVILAVIAL
OBJECTIVES OF THE RELIEF ASSISTANCE:
• To supply essential relief commodities for sustenance of health and livelihood in the flood hit areas of Block.
RELIEF ACTIVITIES AND BUDGET:
Immediate assistance for 1000 affected families in the operational area ( Block) of AR M activities is requested:
Shelter materials: Rs. 1, 50,000
Food items
Rice: Rs. 150000
Flour: Rs. 100000
Pressed Rice: Rs. 40000
Cloths: Rs. 80000
Medicine: Rs. 50000
First aid: Rs. 20000
Bleaching powder: Rs. 20000
Halogen tablets: Rs. 10000
ORS: Rs. 10000
Phenyl: Rs. 15000
Soap: Rs. 5000
Therefore I appealed your kind agency to come forward for express relief assistance for purchase of above relief items for at least 1000 families of Block in FFCM operational villages who have been deeply affected and spending sleepless night on the embankment under the sky. An estimate of critical relief requirement is drawn below for your perusal and benign action. We solicited your kind gesture in circulating our SOS flood message among your associated agencies and prospective partners for immediate relief assistance also. You may also donate any amount for the cause of vulnerable flood affected people .Kindly visit our website www.parhlad.blogspot.com for detailed information about FFCM .
Yours Sincerely
PRAHLAD KUMAR AGGARWAL
Coordinating Member
FOUNDATION FOR COMMAN MAN
B58/149 GURU NANAK PURA LAXMI NAGAR
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E-mail: PARHLAD_AGGARWAL@YAHOO.CO.IN
Website: www.parhlad.blogspot.com
Appeal for urgent relief assistance for the flood victims of north Bihar.state.
Indian air force personnel drop food from a helicopter in the flood-affected area of Kumarkhad village at Midnapore district in India's eastern state of Bihar August 30, 2008. Indian authorities, hampered by heavy rain and damaged roads, struggled to provide aid to millions of displaced villagers in Bihar that has seen the worst flooding in 50 years.
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